Been there.RANT ON
I took my grandson driving (he has his permit) tonight the sun was in his eyes I'm yelling to get over as a bridge side wall was coming up
he still is fooling with sun visor.
I reached over and shut the car off, now he's pissed that I yelled at him and shut the car off.
I did that I told him to get out and look between the bridge and the car I had the window down and my hand was 1/2 way across the wall and there was only inches between my door and bridge. He say's "OH' I explained that if I raise my voice and tell you to do something stop what ever you are doing and do it and it goes for any time home on the road anywhere. He had a million excuses and wasn't happy i told him to pull up and I'm driving home.
When get home and he tells my wife (grandmother) and my daughter (mom) and I'm in the dog house for yelling at him I told them that it was yell or the car would be totaled you pick because if i cant yell I quit!
RANT OFF
I am always amazed at the responses I get when such a situation occurs. Nothing but anger and excuses as to why they are upset with you. Always leaving one with a wonderment if, with all the yelling and self-centered emotion, any important lesson was learned.