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Losing Job
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dzalphakilo
Banned
Funny, if we were neighbors, I'm sure we'd become friends.
Galvatron
Spock and Galvatron < one and the same
dzalphakilo
Banned
get a room guys....sorry friends on the net aint possible
Two men here on this forum are what I'd consider friends. Met them in person, and they were gracious enough to stay at my home.
I wouldn't of had the pleasure of meeting them in person if it were not for the internet.
Galvatron
Spock and Galvatron < one and the same
Snowcat Operations
Active member
Sushi I just saw this thread. MAN FRACK those assholes! Find a new job. BUTTTTTTTTT Let them fire you first. That way you can go down and claim unemployment (which is your money anyway). That way you still have some cash flow and that will give you the time to find a job you really like! No worries man. Take it easy and take your time. Start now by reading the job adds and keep doing your best at work. Dont worry about your boss. God knows I sure as hell dont worry about mine...................... Remember your best is always good enough but good enough is never your best. Always strive to be the best in whatever you do. A job title doesnt make you great. But you can make your title great by doing your best. The job doesnt define you you define the job.
Mainer
Boggie likes our museum
Yea, yea, of course friends on the net happens...I have friends who met online and are now married with several youngins! The net is fantastic/amazing/open worlds/etc... all that. But my point is that when people put really sensitive stuff out there to the public what happens most often is the behavior that one sees when a friend finds out they've been cheated on..."You deserve better..." or "You're much better off without her/him..." or "He doesn't know what he/she missin!" OK. So, great... but it's mostly (not all)cheery-up kind of feedback ... not meaty feedback that can truly help a person move past and then into action to make change. I saw a bunch of feedback to Sushi on another post that was such BS it wasn't even funny... "Don't look at your neighboring workers...focus on your own performance and not theirs...rise above them and you will prevail..." and all that... total BS...BAD advice. The world is full of competition in the work place and it's all relative...exactly that ... relative to where one is and those surrounding him/her. Anyway, I think what happens is people start to give advice based on what 'should be' in the world...if the world were fair, etc... most of the comments to Sushi seem to be very ideal/fair/theoretical and not real-world. The guy seems a great guy and needs hard advice and/or connections to a job, etc... I think it's just more confusing to him.
BUT...with all that said... I do think that he really feels like everyone cares about him on here... so if we set the other stuff aside, it benefits him in that way as a 'safe' place he cane come and vent to friends. Those friends then give sort of warmth, etc... when maybe 'physical friends' don't..and give him "Get the hell out now," or "Suck it up."
It's a good thing but my main worry is providing confusing perspectives and consuming so much of his time when he can use that time to reserach new careers or at minimum find another sales job in a new environment.
BUT...with all that said... I do think that he really feels like everyone cares about him on here... so if we set the other stuff aside, it benefits him in that way as a 'safe' place he cane come and vent to friends. Those friends then give sort of warmth, etc... when maybe 'physical friends' don't..and give him "Get the hell out now," or "Suck it up."
It's a good thing but my main worry is providing confusing perspectives and consuming so much of his time when he can use that time to reserach new careers or at minimum find another sales job in a new environment.
dzalphakilo
Banned
Interesting. In my high school class of 219 students, I finished 214. Two guys who were "below" me are still in jail (and I know their names because we were friends). I do pretty good at where I'm at now, and in my 43 years of life, I've never ONCE collected unemployment.
I love people who think money is due to them or for some reason the world has "done them wrong" and they are owed for some reason.
Go live in a third world country and see what REAL life is about.
We are a great nation, I guess it depends on how you use our "system".
Mainer
Boggie likes our museum
Mainer
Boggie likes our museum
Ditto on never collecting myself .... and agree with your base premise here... but you know, Sushi seems like such a nice guy operating with a bunch of rings... that when I think about all the useless folks that shouldn't be collecting that DO collect...
Snowcat Operations
Active member
I am sure you think that collecting unemployment is just wrong. But the fact is we do pay into it with our own money. I dont believe in welfare. But unemployment is something we have paid part of our own hard earned money into. Not someone elses tax dollars but our own. Its also there just for this purpose! Why let the government keep more of your money!
dzalphakilo
Banned
Wait a minute... are you from Maine or North Carolina?
"Youngins"?
How about "your babies moma's daddy's brother"? (AKA uncle)
Sad thing is, I've been down south long enough I understand what I said
Mainer
Boggie likes our museum
I'm going in and getting fired tomorrow... I want to collect 'the check' so I can come work on finishing your 1202B!
Mainer
Boggie likes our museum
Wait a minute... are you from Maine or North Carolina?
"Youngins"?
How about "your babies moma's daddy's brother"? (AKA uncle)
Sad thing is, I've been down south long enough I understand what I said
I'm from allllll over... I so wish I had some L'iziana in me...throw in healthy (or unhealthy) doses of "y'all" and so ons and so forths and what nots...
dzalphakilo
Banned
I agree, lets all work the system to our advantage.
Again, no one is owed nothing in our lives.
Apologies, that's something I've gotten from my father (from his father who I never met), and proud of it.
Galvatron
Spock and Galvatron < one and the same
i take it from your damn right rudeness you dont have squat in life you hold proud.......i laugh at you arrogant simple replies due to the fact you say "a real friend "ect ect but where are you tonight(with your friends) .....knowing your at least 6 hours behind my time that means your sitting alone trying to jack off as many folk as possible...maybe 9pm....hahaha fook man your sad....
sorry to any staff or members that i may have pissed off but fook man this area is for supporting...not assisting if you know what i mean....fooking twats are beyound belief.
maybe the current $$ crises may swing the fortune of Sushi and screw the non believers in him.
Bollox
Deadly Sushi
The One, The Only, Sushi
I never wanted any of this to happen 
This isnt right. People are fighting and things are getting ugly.
Im sticking with what I have for a month or two until I find out that accounts will close or... they wont. I will ride it out because a lot of money can be had. Money is fuel and I need to keep "driving". While Im working I will look at all the options. I can not just quit. If you quit there is no unemployment. I pray that it doesnt come to that.
But thank GOD you folks are here wanting / trying to help me!!!!! That gives me options. And options mean things arent a closed door. There are people at work that are cheering for me too. It actually feels pretty good that people you see every day see and understand whats going on. Life doesnt seem so unjust or lonely!!
All of it is just putting me in a really good mood. So the folks on here that are busting my balls dont mean shit anymore. Its really putting things into perspective!
Whatever happens, you guys wanted to help me! And that means a HUUUUGE amout to me. Someone that says friends are only someone you see face to face really doesnt understand I think. Im darn proud to be a part of this group. More now than ever. I dont know what the hell I did to get all of this kindness. I come on here and I post stuff. Thats it. I post stuff. My ideas or / and something that I thing you guys will be entertained with. In return I get a load of folks that care about me. Not exactly sure why. I write about whats going on in my life.
Anyhow, I really feel good about who I am and what I do. As for the future I dont know. Still confused and afraid among other things. Im just trying not to stress out too much. I always try to do the best I can. Maybe its the industry Im in... maybe its that Im not good at what I do (I dont think so though)... maybe its luck? It very well could be the profession Im in. Ive thought a lot about what everyone wrote. Today, because of options and the HUGE amount of kindness, I really didnt worry as much. Forget about what I said before about ending ANYTHING. Thats stupid talk. PLEASE forget I ever wrote that stuff.
Dont worry about ol Sush. I'll be fine.
This isnt right. People are fighting and things are getting ugly.
Im sticking with what I have for a month or two until I find out that accounts will close or... they wont. I will ride it out because a lot of money can be had. Money is fuel and I need to keep "driving". While Im working I will look at all the options. I can not just quit. If you quit there is no unemployment. I pray that it doesnt come to that.
But thank GOD you folks are here wanting / trying to help me!!!!! That gives me options. And options mean things arent a closed door. There are people at work that are cheering for me too. It actually feels pretty good that people you see every day see and understand whats going on. Life doesnt seem so unjust or lonely!!
All of it is just putting me in a really good mood. So the folks on here that are busting my balls dont mean shit anymore. Its really putting things into perspective! Whatever happens, you guys wanted to help me! And that means a HUUUUGE amout to me. Someone that says friends are only someone you see face to face really doesnt understand I think. Im darn proud to be a part of this group. More now than ever. I dont know what the hell I did to get all of this kindness. I come on here and I post stuff. Thats it. I post stuff. My ideas or / and something that I thing you guys will be entertained with. In return I get a load of folks that care about me. Not exactly sure why. I write about whats going on in my life.
Anyhow, I really feel good about who I am and what I do. As for the future I dont know. Still confused and afraid among other things. Im just trying not to stress out too much. I always try to do the best I can. Maybe its the industry Im in... maybe its that Im not good at what I do (I dont think so though)... maybe its luck? It very well could be the profession Im in. Ive thought a lot about what everyone wrote. Today, because of options and the HUGE amount of kindness, I really didnt worry as much. Forget about what I said before about ending ANYTHING. Thats stupid talk. PLEASE forget I ever wrote that stuff.
Dont worry about ol Sush. I'll be fine.
dzalphakilo
Banned
Go get yourself a fag
Ever have a spottydick?
Or, as we say in Amercia, take a chill pill dude.
Snowcat Operations
Active member
Sushi. Hows the new job hunt going?
Galvatron
Spock and Galvatron < one and the same
Go get yourself a fag
Ever have a spottydick?
Or, as we say in Amercia, take a chill pill dude.
PS feel free to PM me save ruining the thread further.
Deadly Sushi
The One, The Only, Sushi
Go get yourself a fag
Ever have a spottydick?
Come on man. Just stop. Thats just not cool. Not nice nor funny.
Im not just saying that because Kimi has been a very very nice guy to me. Im saying it because its out of line.
ADMINS... PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD
Galvatron
Spock and Galvatron < one and the same
rback33
Hangin in Tornado Alley
Have no fear Sushi I am watchin for yer email....
DZ... for someone who doesn't seem to give a shit about the situation you sure have spent a lot of time throwin all the rocks you can. Maybe you didn't get the part about the emotionally challenged people earlier... My late step-grandpa had a sign over the door in his metal/wood working shop that said, "Strangers are friends I have not met yet." That sums me up very well. Erik is the only forum member I have met IRL, but I think he can tell you that what you see here is what you get. I can't imagine what it feels like to live in a cold, friendless world. I'll be sure and pray for you tonight.
As far as the rest... I am formally asking for a private forum that those of us that care and want to can go and discuss things with out risk of infectious tumors.
DZ... for someone who doesn't seem to give a shit about the situation you sure have spent a lot of time throwin all the rocks you can. Maybe you didn't get the part about the emotionally challenged people earlier... My late step-grandpa had a sign over the door in his metal/wood working shop that said, "Strangers are friends I have not met yet." That sums me up very well. Erik is the only forum member I have met IRL, but I think he can tell you that what you see here is what you get. I can't imagine what it feels like to live in a cold, friendless world. I'll be sure and pray for you tonight.
As far as the rest... I am formally asking for a private forum that those of us that care and want to can go and discuss things with out risk of infectious tumors.
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