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Would you do it again ?

kitty said:
I would not get married again!
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Kitty ,

I honestly hope you do not mean that and this is just the fresh wounds of a failed marriage that makes you say this .

Seeing the world through your partners eyes can open up a whole new view . I want to grow old holding the hand of the women that I dearly love and respect . Life would not mean much without her .

I been down that Rocky road before , twice myself . Don't ever give up . He or she is out there , just waiting , like you.... :smile: .

Its been 20 years now . I don't remember life before that .
 
pirate_girl said:
I can say for a fact that I'll never get married again.
Twice was enough, thank you.
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Oh poo ! I have a great "come back" but i'll save it for later .

So you are a quitter ? Thats not the PG I know ..:whistling: ohh!! Now I got your dander up ! Give me a kiss :flowers:
 
Not a quitter, just one who has come to enjoy her own space.
If you'd told me 8 years ago I'd have felt like this, I'd have told you you were nuts.
Kiss!
 
pirate_girl said:
Not a quitter, just one who has come to enjoy her own space.
If you'd told me 8 years ago I'd have felt like this, I'd have told you you were nuts.
Kiss![/QUOTE]

I want a hug too :whistling:

You just need a Big Al type . We are a rare breed . A little crazy , cute as hell , very protective , Serving breakfast in bed on Sundays with the Sunday paper scattered all over the place . long walks . Devoted lap dogs !!! Threw that last one in for affect !!:yum:.

Pound for pound , Big Al types are cheaper than chicken !:biggrin:
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Hug!

I had one similar to you. I think he's in heaven watching over me, considering the direction some of my dating experiences have gone over the last 4 years LOL ;)
 
pirate_girl said:
Hug!

I had one similar to you. I think he's in heaven watching over me, considering the direction some of my dating experiences have gone over the last 4 years LOL ;)
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Seriously PG . You got a big heart . That shows through all the time . Please don't give up on love . You have a lot to offer . That fella that is watching over you , would want you to be as happy as possible . Who in the hell would have ever thought that the 3rd time would bring me the happiness I know today . There is not a day goes by , that I do not thank the good Lord for the little women , that I call my wife . I am a lucky man .
 
BigAl said:
Seriously PG . You got a big heart . That shows through all the time . Please don't give up on love . You have a lot to offer . That fella that is watching over you , would want you to be as happy as possible . Who in the hell would have ever thought that the 3rd time would bring me the happiness I know today . There is not a day goes by , that I do not thank the good Lord for the little women , that I call my wife . I am a lucky man .
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I haven't given up on love Al.
I'm just waiting for that knight in shining armour to come along and MAKE me change the way I feel perhaps.
It took me a while to get over losing Steven, even longer to get used to being on my own this long.
Heh.. ya never know.:smile:
 
pirate_girl said:
I haven't given up on love Al.
I'm just waiting for that knight in shining armour to come along and MAKE me change the way I feel perhaps.
It took me a while to get over losing Steven, even longer to get used to being on my own this long.
Heh.. ya never know.:smile:
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Thats the girl we all know and love here on FF :clap:. I'll start writing your name on Bathroom walls to see what turns up !!!! Your welcome ....:smile:
 
Would I do it again? I dearly hope it never comes to the point where I have to find out. Dragonfly Lady and I have been together for over 40 years now, and it is really hard to remember a time when we weren't.

There have been hard times. Quite a lot of them actually; raising a child with major neurological problems is no one's idea of a fun life. There were times when it would have been so incredibly easy to chuck it all in and just walk away, but we were committed to each other and never forgot why we got married in the first place. We gave each other support and equally important, we gave each other space when it was needed. We have been happy more than we were sad.

Would I do it again? I have to admit just thinking about what could make that necessary ties my gut up in knots, but the answer has to be a qualified "Yes". After what I have had, living alone would be nearly impossibly difficult. Even more difficult would be finding someone else - not to replace Arlene, that is not possible - with whom I could form that same sort of bond.

I pray that I never have to find out.
 
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