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Deadly Sushi

Deadly Sushi

The One, The Only, Sushi
I have joined a free dating site and wrote a "blurb"

What is your opinion?

I am a realist that really has a passion to discover as much as I can from life. I enjoy fishing, art/theatre, golf, tennis (not that I play by the rules), great discussions, Im a political geek, cooking, traveling and antique autos, PC Gaming, internet surfing, helping people on various levels and making a woman laugh, of course! :) I pride myself on just being down-to-earth and communicating and relating well, with most anyone. Kids love me but I just, for now, do not want one. I currently prefer my 2 very dog-like cats. Actually I really like animals and occasionally visit shelters. My family and friends are a fairly large part of my life. I would love to find a confident and intelligent women. Dont mistake that for a woman with a huge ego that wants to get lavished with gifts. I detest that. Im out to find a fun good-hearted individual where we mutually like each other for our personalities. I am not about "buying" into a relationship. For men who do that they might as well get a "escort". Bottom line is I want to like you, for YOU. I want you to like me, for me. Not what I have. :)
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Deadly Sushi said:
I have joined a free dating site and wrote a "blurb"

What is your opinion?
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Writing that on a public batroom wall should generate some real interest . Best of luck :smile:

Serious side : best of luck :flowers:. I am very fortunate that my wife is also my best friend . I wish you the same kind of luck .
allen
 
BigAl said:
Writing that on a public batroom wall should generate some real interest . Best of luck :smile:

Serious side : best of luck :flowers:. I am very fortunate that my wife is also my best friend . I wish you the same kind of luck .
allen
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Do you like the rum equally? :yum:
 
Just my opinion Sushi , But I guess I,m old fashioned . If you have to look for a friend or relationship using those kind of sites I just cant see it happening . Sure Some might do OK . But most things are just meant to be , IMO .

I,d look around a lil closer to the people you are around & you allready are Aquainted with . Most folks I know are stuck on the Physical things , Might be surprised what you find if you look deeper inside .

It took me 6 times to get it right because I was allways looking in the wrong places . Finally I said the hell with women & gave up on even looking anymore .

Thats when my wife & I got together & We,ve known each other for years it just never crossed our minds before , but when it did it was meant to be . Weve been through hell & back & neither of us have ever been happier , But theres not a day goes by without both of us showing what we mean to each other one way or another . Best of luck to you . :biggrin:
 
Bottom line is I want to like you, for YOU. I want you to like me, for me. Not what I have.

That's a good line Sush.
Got any responses yet?
 
Well as someone that married the girl that was also my best friend I can't relate to a dating service or for that matter dating anymore. Now if it works for you then good luck, been married 46 years to the same woman with no major bumps between us. If I had it to do over I would without a second thought.
 
Sush, for the love of God.. if you're going to use a dating site, only talk to girls that are local to your area.
If you decide to meet any, make it in a public place.
Watch the body language, pay attention to what she is really saying to you.
Don't fall for any players on the net, because there are MANY.
Dating sites are a good thing for the most part, but I can't help but think that a lot of those folks (certainly not all) just want sex.
A lot of them are married too.
I learned this the hard way.
 
pirate_girl said:
Sush, for the love of God.. if you're going to use a dating site, only talk to girls that are local to your area.
If you decide to meet any, make it in a public place.
Watch the body language, pay attention to what she is really saying to you.
Don't fall for any players on the net, because there are MANY.
Dating sites are a good thing for the most part, but I can't help but think that a lot of those folks (certainly not all) just want sex.
A lot of them are married too.
I learned this the hard way.
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Sushi would settle for that.
 
pirate_girl said:
Sush, for the love of God.. if you're going to use a dating site, only talk to girls that are local to your area.
If you decide to meet any, make it in a public place.
Watch the body language, pay attention to what she is really saying to you.
Don't fall for any players on the net, because there are MANY.
Dating sites are a good thing for the most part, but I can't help but think that a lot of those folks (certainly not all) just want sex.
A lot of them are married too.
I learned this the hard way.
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Sushi,

PG is giving very very good advise, I've used these my self to good affect.
Helped me weed through the losers very quickly. Personally I think
your to hard headed to head good advice from a lady. :clap:

Now I had my wife who is very experanced lady when it comes to dating
read your "blurb". Her comment "sound like he's blowing his ego up
of himself. Asked if the "blurb" sounded interesting "No way" :yum:

This is not intended to be cruel. Sushi we're trying to give an objective
honest opinion and not be hurtful.
 
ncroamer65 said:
Sushi,

PG is giving very very good advise, I've used these my self to good affect.
Helped me weed through the losers very quickly. Personally I think
your to hard headed to head good advice from a lady. :clap:

Now I had my wife who is very experanced lady when it comes to dating
read your "blurb". Her comment "sound like he's blowing his ego up
of himself. Asked if the "blurb" sounded interesting "No way" :yum:

This is not intended to be cruel. Sushi we're trying to give an objective
honest opinion and not be hurtful.
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Yup. The profile reads like the vast majority of others in the online dating world: "I'm passionate about life, I don't like insincereity, blah, blah blah."

Be creative, and set yourself apart. Don't parrot the masses.
 
DS, Let me give you an idea of what to post .

Looking for : Hey I'm here cause I tried the bar scene and it was a total waste of time .
Me > Goof Ball who would rather laugh than cry and Tell the truth than lie . I ain't perfect and either are you , or neither one of us would be here if we were.
I'm like a good car ..... A few dings and dents but I can still give you a lot of good miles of smiles and happy memories .

You> Looks arn't everything but being true to yourself is . You should be honest , caring and be able to laugh at your own mistakes . If your looking for a "One Night stand " , keep looking .
I'm too old and too tired to play that game . We get one shot in life . I'm looking for mine .

Cut the crap , get to the point and save everybody a lot of time . Best of luck sushi !
 
Your "blurb" leaves little to discover. Big Al's suggestion would be a good.
Leaving a little mystery keeps it interesting.
You said that you wanted a "women" with confindance.The question
do YOU have the same level that your asking for. :whistling:

Sushi I would like to see you make a connection. :clap:

The best advice I ever recived was to talk to a lady friend, PG, for her
view on what your doing. :clap:
 
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