Dreading this crap..
That Rexnord chain is expensive. But works really well in dairies and food processors.Took on a project of my own in the shop, too busy with not enough help sometimes. I started on it last week. Its a custom All stainless conveyor to lay bags down after filling for packaging. Still have to mount the drive/ motor and guarding. Should be in pretty good shape at the end of the week.
He's not going to listen to reason as long as he's on the sauce.I never post anything personal about myself on any forum I’m on but I’ve just got to get something off my chest that’s been gnawing at me more and more as of late. Late last year, my 67 year old dad was diagnosed with hypertrophic cardiomyopathy which is a thickening of the heart muscle. I did a little research into it and I think he told me one of the causes of alcohol and he drinks EVERYDAY. Just beer and he has zero motivation to do anything anymore but I can say nothing to him about it anymore than my siblings can because if we do - he’ll just get pissed.
And don’t get me wrong, I know he’s depressed and he has been ever since we lost my mom a few years back but I’m totally at a loss on what to even do or how to proceed. He’s really the only family I have left. My younger brother was adopted and I have a step sister and an older sister I never see.
I’ve done my best to hold him up and lift his spirits but what can I do? I hate this but it’s like he won’t listen to reason. And it’s just frustrating because I feel powerless.
I never post anything personal about myself on any forum I’m on but I’ve just got to get something off my chest that’s been gnawing at me more and more as of late. Late last year, my 67 year old dad was diagnosed with hypertrophic cardiomyopathy which is a thickening of the heart muscle. I did a little research into it and I think he told me one of the causes of alcohol and he drinks EVERYDAY. Just beer and he has zero motivation to do anything anymore but I can say nothing to him about it anymore than my siblings can because if we do - he’ll just get pissed.
And don’t get me wrong, I know he’s depressed and he has been ever since we lost my mom a few years back but I’m totally at a loss on what to even do or how to proceed. He’s really the only family I have left. My younger brother was adopted and I have a step sister and an older sister I never see.
I’ve done my best to hold him up and lift his spirits but what can I do? I hate this but it’s like he won’t listen to reason. And it’s just frustrating because I feel powerless.
He had an appointment recently to see what his options were but I’m sure he likely canceled it. I’ll ask him today.He's not going to listen to reason as long as he's on the sauce.
You need to get serious with him and tell him he's going to die if he doesn't get treatment.
Thanks. And there’s no doubt in my mind that’s what he’s been thinking. They were together for almost 40 years and that’s joust something you just really never get over. We lost her to a very rare form of cancer. Peritoneal. It lines the walls of the stomach and it’s undetectable until the late stages. He’s gotten better but this is something none of us have ever really gotten over.From what I think I know he has to forgive....
himself, and everyone he ever held a grudge against hopefully.
Most of all he has to forgive his maker. He wonders why did God take her, not me? Part of grieving is anger, and some never get over that.
If you can some how make him understand that drinking will never answer the question why. It changes nothing..
I pray for you, that you might some how let him see...
Okay GirlThis afternoon, I had a knock down of sorts with the powers that be in the nursing department.
Storms coming, can you work?
Yes, we ALL know the snow is coming, yes we ALL know it's going to be bad.
NO, I am not available Wednesday or Thursday.
I'll be there tomorrow and Saturday.
Last time I worked during a Snowzilla,I got stuck for almost 24 hours.
I don't care if I live close.
Some nonsense going on here. The condition of hypertrophic cardiomyopathy is not necessarily fatal. I know because I have it. Three of my brothers have it. One of them did have a cardiac arrest as he was teaching class. His students saved him with electric shocks.I never post anything personal about myself on any forum I’m on but I’ve just got to get something off my chest that’s been gnawing at me more and more as of late. Late last year, my 67 year old dad was diagnosed with hypertrophic cardiomyopathy which is a thickening of the heart muscle. I did a little research into it and I think he told me one of the causes of alcohol and he drinks EVERYDAY. Just beer and he has zero motivation to do anything anymore but I can say nothing to him about it anymore than my siblings can because if we do - he’ll just get pissed.
And don’t get me wrong, I know he’s depressed and he has been ever since we lost my mom a few years back but I’m totally at a loss on what to even do or how to proceed. He’s really the only family I have left. My younger brother was adopted and I have a step sister and an older sister I never see.
I’ve done my best to hold him up and lift his spirits but what can I do? I hate this but it’s like he won’t listen to reason. And it’s just frustrating because I feel powerless.
He's VERY stubborn and currently unmotivated. And there have been times he hasn't left his house in weeks at a time. All he'll do is sit in his recliner, watch Westerns, drink and order food. I told him that I plan to do better for myself this year and he is himself but he's still doing the same thing he's always done ever since she passed. She told him that she wanted everyone to 'Keep on living and not curl up into a ball and die with her' but I'm at a total loss on how to proceed.Good luck with the old man. They can be fatally stubborn.
Obesity is a big issue with HCM.He's VERY stubborn and currently unmotivated. And there have been times he hasn't left his house in weeks at a time. All he'll do is sit in his recliner, watch Westerns, drink and order food. I told him that I plan to do better for myself this year and he is himself but he's still doing the same thing he's always done ever since she passed. She told him that she wanted everyone to 'Keep on living and not curl up into a ball and die with her' but I'm at a total loss on how to proceed.
As I've said, he'll get pissed if we call out his behavior on his drinking. It's just beer, thankfully but he drinks a lot of it. He can't do the hard stuff. I can and I can walk away. So can my brother. He just needs to get back to the doctor to consider a list of options on where to proceed. I'd like to have him around for a very long time to come and it just sucks seeing him or anyone like this.
As far as I know, yes. Both of his parents were alcoholics, and it wasn't limited to beer. He can't stand it. He did manage to kick the habit for some time (and lost weight) but he's picked right back off where he left off. And on top of that, he rarely leaves the house.It's just beer?????
Best wishes is all I can offer.As far as I know, yes. Both of his parents were alcoholics, and it wasn't limited to beer. He can't stand it. He did manage to kick the habit for some time (and lost weight) but he's picked right back off where he left off. And on top of that, he rarely leaves the house.
Thanks, but he's going to have to want to do this. That's the only way things will get better for him.Best wishes is all I can offer.
I was expecting to wake up this morning with the same.Ours started over night. We got almost a foot of snow.