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American Woman

New member
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I was at a nursing home today taking 3 hours of my day there, which I do EVERY weekend (which is not my job).

I work with the local humane society (more hours there than you could believe).

I'm going to start to work with the department of social services as a volunteer (sp?).

There's more, but that should give you an idea that I actually do something to help others in my life.

Remember, words mean nothing, actions do.

Yeah, I'm the type that when I worked at the special olympics, a guy was criticizing (sp?) the "ref" because a little girl who was afraid to jump (standing long jump) finally did, but her feet "touched" the line. The guy was complaining because the girl should of been disqualified. I took that guy on the side and told him he was a fuc*king asshole because in the special olympics, rules mean nothing. It's all about making sure the kids are happy.

Being a member of AA, I've learned that people have to want to help themselves. Sush doesn't want the help, he just wants to feel popular on this forum. Well, here's a hard fact news flash... being popular on a internet forum will get you nothing in life.

I've also learned the hard way that people are alot like animals. You can't save them all.

I think it's real sweet that you take up for the little girl....your right, the rules don't apply there. you should be commended for your time in the nursing home.
I spend hours daily in a nursing home. I do the ladies and gents hair (that's what I do for a living) for free. I come in with kids and we do manicures. other times I just hang out and we spend time with the residents. The ladies like the kids holding their hands, painting their nails and talking with them. There's a couple that I take out on a weekly basis to get a break from the home. I have a job, two kids, and I home school them. So I'm busy too.
I get how you would feel about Sushi and thinking all he does is complain, when you spend your time with people that should complain and don't. You obviously have a big heart or you wouldn't do all the volunteering of your time that you do. Sushi is a human being that is having trouble dealing with life sometimes. That is just as big an illness as as an illness you can see. Just try to show some of the compassion I know you have and try to understand the whole story before judging. Your hurting him and and others that care about him, and I'm sure that's not what you ment to do in the first place :flowers:
 

BoneheadNW

Active member
Someone can be the nicest person in the world- they can save babies from burning buildings and volunteer here and there- but when they are only known on a forum as a bully and an ass, the rest does not matter.
Bonehead
 

urednecku

Active member
Site Supporter
I ask this too all here that are up-set for one reason or another on this thread:



Why the hell are you wasting your time reading and posting, just to criticize??
Just 'ignore' the thread, it will eventually go away, without your blood pressure raising.

Sushi is as Sushi does.
dz is as dz does.

Some people like me, some people do not.
Some people like Sushi, some people do not.
Some people like dz, some people do not.
Some people like 2 of us, but not the other.
Some people like 1 of us, but not the other 2.
Some people like all of us.
Some people do not like any of us.
Some people like all of us.



Damn, just get over it already.
 

American Woman

New member
Site Supporter
I ask this too all here that are up-set for one reason or another on this thread:



Why the hell are you wasting your time reading and posting, just to criticize??
Just 'ignore' the thread, it will eventually go away, without your blood pressure raising.

Sushi is as Sushi does.
dz is as dz does.

Some people like me, some people do not.
Some people like Sushi, some people do not.
Some people like dz, some people do not.
Some people like 2 of us, but not the other.
Some people like 1 of us, but not the other 2.
Some people like all of us.
Some people do not like any of us.
Some people like all of us.



Damn, just get over it already.
I bet you think I'm confused now.....I""""MMMMMM NOT!
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Cityboy

Banned
Ya'll let me jump in here a minute.

Everybody take a breath. Sometimes it is hard to read someones intent in print without the benefit of voice inflections.

DZ means no malice to Sushi. Coming from me, this will hopefully mean a lot to many, especially the old timers, because me & DZ used to go at each other to the point of unbelievable ugliness. I used to not like DZ very much because I didn't understand where he was coming from, and the mods got between us more than once. One day, I decided to actually apply some philosophy I was studying which advocated that we should seek first to understand the people we interact with, then, after actually truly understanding that person, then we can seek to be understood. It's a two-way street. And guess what? I understand where DZ is coming from now. And I also understand where the rest of you guys are coming from.

We have a unique group of people here at FF. I've discovered that everyone has something to offer. We don't always agree on everything, but we by-and-large get along pretty good, and I've come to consider many of you guys friends. That's why I came back here after I left a few months ago. You guys are a good bunch of people and DZ is a part of that group of good folks that I have come to like and respect. Let's give each other a chance, and lets seek first to understand each other before we go to slapping one another. You might be surprised what you will learn when you open up and seek understanding.

Hell, if my hardheaded ass can do it...anybody can.
 

rback33

Hangin in Tornado Alley
SUPER Site Supporter
GREAT post CB!!! :a1: Rep points for you. :thumb:

LOL I hit him with them first. I tell you.... I liked the "old" CB that I knew a little of before he left, but I like the "new" one even more.

and AW....:hammer:
 

Cityboy

Banned
GREAT post CB!!! :a1: Rep points for you. :thumb:

Thanks Doc. You're a stand-up guy. And I owe you an apology from when I left.
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I was an ass in the starbucks thread (if you remember it). I had intentionally stirred up some crap and created my own drama and conflict.

I sincerely apologize, publicly, to you, right here, right now. :respect: At 44 YO, I think I'm finally growing up.............maybe........:mrgreen:
 

Erik

SelfBane
Site Supporter
Thanks Doc. You're a stand-up guy. And I owe you an apology from when I left.
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I was an ass in the starbucks thread (if you remember it). I had intentionally stirred up some crap and created my own drama and conflict.

I sincerely apologize, publicly, to you, right here, right now. :respect: At 44 YO, I think I'm finally growing up.............maybe........:mrgreen:
good on you mate!
I'd give you more points, but rules say i've gotta share first...
 

Doc

Bottoms Up
Staff member
GOLD Site Supporter
Thanks CB!!! Apology accepted. Cheers!!! :beer:

Also, while I do remember the thread I have no desire to read it again. I do know that I was far from perfect in that thread. I apologize to you for the way that one went down. I should have communicated to you in private about your sig, but I was pissed and didn't take the high road and for that I apologize.

I'm glad you came back CB. Your thought provoking questions and responses were missed in your absence.
 

rback33

Hangin in Tornado Alley
SUPER Site Supporter
Thanks Doc. You're a stand-up guy. And I owe you an apology from when I left.
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I was an ass in the starbucks thread (if you remember it). I had intentionally stirred up some crap and created my own drama and conflict.

I sincerely apologize, publicly, to you, right here, right now. :respect: At 44 YO, I think I'm finally growing up.............maybe........:mrgreen:

OK. Now I am worried. Where is the REAL Cityboy? :poke:

I really should not derail your seriousness here, but I can't control myself. I really wanna head south on 35 and have a beer and BS with you....
 

thcri

Gone But Not Forgotten
OK. Now I am worried. Where is the REAL Cityboy? :poke:

I really should not derail your seriousness here, but I can't control myself. I really wanna head south on 35 and have a beer and BS with you....


I am starting to worry also. This just isn't right? I could head south on 35 too but the beer would be way to warm by the time I got there
 

Cityboy

Banned
OK. Now I am worried. Where is the REAL Cityboy? :poke:

I really should not derail your seriousness here, but I can't control myself. I really wanna head south on 35 and have a beer and BS with you....

Don't push it Dorothy :14_6_20:

But if you make it down I-35, we'll have that beer. :beer: You too Murph!
 

Cityboy

Banned
Thanks CB!!! Apology accepted. Cheers!!! :beer:

Also, while I do remember the thread I have no desire to read it again. I do know that I was far from perfect in that thread. I apologize to you for the way that one went down. I should have communicated to you in private about your sig, but I was pissed and didn't take the high road and for that I apologize.

I'm glad you came back CB. Your thought provoking questions and responses were missed in your absence.

Tanks again, Doc. We're cool, and I'm glad to be back. My intent is to make it to Ohio in October to meet you & party with Vin & everybody. Can't wait!
 

Doc

Bottoms Up
Staff member
GOLD Site Supporter
Tanks again, Doc. We're cool, and I'm glad to be back. My intent is to make it to Ohio in October to meet you & party with Vin & everybody. Can't wait!

Glad to hear you'll try to be there. :thumb: Sounds like a PARTY! :dancing: :dancing:
 

rback33

Hangin in Tornado Alley
SUPER Site Supporter
OK CB... air is clear (as it has been) why not change yer custom title again? Every time I see it, it makes me think of what DID happen in the past. I am sure that it has just not crossed yer mind, but.....:thumb:
 

BoneheadNW

Active member
Here it is, from environmentman.
Bone
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