Bob,
You have brought up an issue with this post that, while I am sure you will come across it soon enough, but you MUST educate the teachers, and administration at school on your daughters condition. SOME school districts will NOT allow insulin syringes and some will. Here our grade school did NOT, but the high school did, which in the large picture made no sense to me. Let them know what her parameters are, her meals are to be, and let her friends in on it.........please. They can be shown what to look for and since they are most likely around her more, they can alert the correct persons at school. You mentioned once that she gave herself 2 injections, we used to mix the insulins for our daughter, slow and fast, but this was after a time, I am honestly not sure about right after onset.
From past experience I can tell you insulin pumps may be premature at this time for her. You have heard/read correctly, they are for those that have matured so to say. We were considering one for Auty when she past away.
From this point of view, another thing very important is to find an endocrynologist that you and your daughter are happy with. This person will change as she ages, they specialize somewhat as child and adult stages begin.
I feel for you guys very much so, I know exactly what you are going thru, we have been there, done that, got the shirt so to say. There are many support agencies and groups to support both your family and your daughter.......use them please. There are camps, sporting events, and other activities led by wonderful people who also have diabetes and related illnesses............... I can tell you it is not easy, but I can also tell you it is very possible for this to not be a major ordeal, but simply something you do normally.
God Bless you guys as you begin this journey..........