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I caught my wife cheating with her coworker's son.

Rallyvelez

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Me and my wife Terri have been married for 4 years and she cheated on me with her coworker's son. My wife runs a salon with her coworker Keisha, and when she went to jail for driving and drinking her son lived with us for about a year. Everything was fine at first but I noticed they started getting closer. He would always hug on my wife and kiss her on the cheek but I thought it was because Terri was friends with his mom. He also has a girlfriend so I try to be reasonable about it.

I noticed something was wrong when his girlfriend came to visit us. They were listening to rap music in his room and when my wife came to check on them I could hear them laughing and having a conversation. After a little while they convinced wife to twerk to the music and I was surprised at what I saw. My wife is Puerto Rican so she has a strong ass and he watched while her asscheeks crash into each other underneath her sundress. Even though his girlfriend cheered her was looking interested.

After that I try to stop them from being too close without sounding or looking paranoid. All that day it will make them be more secretive around each other. When I came back to our apartment early from leaving my brother's house that's when I caught them. At first I thought she was going to confess and feel bad but she didn't say anything. She keeps being with him and it don't look like she's stopping.
 
A good marriage can be restored with hard & painful work. From both partners.
It takes time and a 100% unselfish quality enlisted from each partner.

I don't see evidence of that quality here.
Dump her or suffer again the humiliation and pain of not being "enough."
 
A good marriage can be restored with hard & painful work. From both partners.
It takes time and a 100% unselfish quality enlisted from each partner.

I don't see evidence of that quality here.
Dump her or suffer again the humiliation and pain of not being "enough."
Why do you say that???
 
Cheating was the final straw for me when I left my ex after 11 years. So I am a little biased. In my opinion, once the trust of is broken, it's gone. Especially with infidelity. Think to yourself..."Do I really want to spent the rest of my days worrying about who my partner is sleeping with everytime I leave the house?"

I was born and raised in a smaller community. Lived there for the first 35 years of my life. Knew most everyone in town. After my ex wife confessed to cheating, I spent the next year or so in a situation where everywhere I went, people were saying they can't believe I stayed with her that long knowing that she was cheating. And to this day I still don't know who. So here I was living in a small town with my son (I kept the youngest son. She sent the oldest who I had raised as my own for 10 years to live with his biodad), and I got to a point where I didn't want to leave the house except for work as everywhere I went, I was wondering...was it you? Was it you? Did you know and didn't say anything? A very lonely feeling. I eventually took a position in the city 3 hours away where I could blend in and start a new life.
 
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