legginggirl
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So I've been hooking up with this guy for maybe a month and we've done pretty much everything except actually have sex. I'm his booty call (which I'm not complaining about btw), I usually go over to his place on the weekends and we hookup. We have did 69 and the last time we hooked up he actually convinced me to do anal he said it was a "precursor to sex" but I was curious and decided to do it. I have asked him numerous times why he doesn't want to do it and he seems to get uncomfortable? He's given me these answers: too much responsibility, scared to get girls pregnant, we'll do it eventually, and that he doesn't do it a lot. He would do this or try to change the subject. I asked a few of my friends about this and they said that he might be a virgin, but I find this hard to believe because he seems like he knows what he's doing. But, I did look up signs a guy was a virgin and there was 2 so far: he didn't know how to unhook my bra and he came pretty fast. I don't know it's really confusing me and it's making me feel like I'm doing something wrong. After hooking up he always wants me to cuddle him and holds my hands which confuses me even more. I don't want to pressure the guy to have sex but I feel like if we've gotten this far, we might as well have sex and I feel comfortable enough to do it.