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What do you go for in a partner?

laulau15

Active member
I do not go for physical appearance but I would not want really ugly like sumo wrestler weight like 200 kilos but a 'dad' body is ok.
I do not really find ripped or six pack very attractive or someone that works out that hard because that would get annoying same with men who manscape too hard.
It is nice when you can look at the beauty of someone's face and love it because they are special to you.
I think love and often attraction goes beyond the physical appearance.
What do you think?
I like someone with a brain who makes me think and challenges me to some degree at least I think but good conversation at times is important.
And kind heart, I think it is helpful when they carry positive views and are kind to you.
I do not necessarily want someone incessantly cruel.
I would love an empath like me but I think not likely for me because it equals too much burnout which is sad because it is nice when someone really understands that giving and empath side of you.
I am weird and I often wanted a project for a partner which is hard for me someone with trauma, mixed up issues or alcohol addiction because trauma is something I get
And I just think that sometimes is someone I would stand by someone who came home drunk each night or would not talk to me for a time because I get it.
And it really helps you bond when you understand struggles like that because if you do not talk you do not even if it is for months and break up and then get back together.
I think partnership goes beyond bad breakups.
I think if you can break up badly many times and still love each other then that is the real deal and a good test of true love.
I want someone who gives me piggybacks and runs with me on their back and does crazy dances on New year's with me.
There has to be fun and I think they have to get my wild and zany side.
But yes a lot of times, you have to accept it may be different to what you expect and to lower my expectations a lot has been really hard for me.
I love fun and can be a bit wild.
But I'm other ways I do not drink really much like others and can be a square.
I just mean I am probably a bit silly.
 
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