I just got out of a very serious 4 year engagement, we were together very young and lived together. Now I really want to focus on what makes me happy and I'm not anywhere near ready to commit to someone again. Now my problem is that I found a guy I'm extremely attracted to but would really just want to do a friends with benefits type of thing as I don't want anything serious. I also have been talking to a guy that lives really far that is super super sweet really caring and cute but I think he wants something serious. He doesn't come see me though and he hangs out with his ex all the time. I just want to know if it makes me a terrible person to go with the first guy just for FWB I think it will make me happy. The second guy is someone I think I'd want to be with if the time was right but it just isn't. Help!
What do I do
- Thread starter Kaygeorge
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My suggestion in a situation like this is to just sit on the side lines until such time as the view is a bit more clear...
It takes time after 4 years to decompress. Don't rush into anything, with anyone, till such time that you have forgotten about your last relationship..
Getting back in the saddle is a good thing, but not until your ready. From your post, I don't think your quite there yet. JMHO.
Regards, Kirk