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My stay at the "EMU"

Catavenger

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Recently I was told by my neurologist that since he seems to have run out of medications to treat my epilepsy (seizures,) and since my insurance would pay for it I would have to go in the "EMU" (Epilepsy Monitoring Unit ) at my local hospital. I was very reluctant to go there however was told by his staff that if I refused to go there he would no longer have me as a patient. My sister and her husband had also been pushing me to go there. Once there I had to pay a hefty copay and my anti-seizure medications were stopped.
There after I had already been wired up to an EEG to my head and had various medical devices attached to my hands I found out that I would be strapped into the bed "for my own safety." That did not seem so bad but I also found out that this strap would be LOCKED. Yes I was locked into the bed. I also found out at this time that my sister had previously been aware that I would be locked to the bed. I was very unhappy about this.
I was also watched by a camera and my brainwaves were monitored. I was supposed to push a button if I felt odd or felt that I was having a seizure. I frequently have what are know as partial onset or simple partial seizures. I do not lose conciousness with these and most people do not even notice that I have them. In order to be cooperative I pushed the button when I had these. I had one after I had been let loose to use the bathroom and was just finishing there. After that I had to not only get permission to be let loose of my locked restraints but also be followed into the bathroom.
The food as well as the treatment I was given there in my opinion was substandard.
I had also been told that I could bring my laptop computer and that there was internet access. Once there I found out that the laptop would not connect. I found out that the so called "internet access" was just a very few websites such as news and G-mail hooked to the the room's TV.
I felt humiliated being locked to the bed and basically watched in the bathroom. I was not given much of any chance to brush my teeth wash up or use deodorant.
I had told them at least three times that the IV tube that was not hooked to a line but was shoved into my left arm was painful however nothing was done about this.
I was supposed to be there for 72 hours however after being there one night I slipped out of the restraints and grabbed my pants and put them on over my pajamas. Fortunately there was a phone (9 to get an outside line.) I called and left a message at my sister's house for her to please come and get me. After that the epileptologist who looked to be around thirty came into the room and started telling me how bad my brainwaves looked. I told him that I did not care but to unhook me from the various wires and let me loose. I would sign whatever it took to absolve them from any responsibility for my safety. He continued to yack at me. I had to pick up the phone and bluff that I was going to call a lawyer if they did not let me leave. The epileptologist wanted to know how I was going to get home I told him I would walk if I had to. Fortunately I had found a card that had my brother-in-law's cell phone number I called that and my sister answered. She did agree to come and get me. The boy wonder epileptologist kept popping in and out of the room; he would not shut up or leave me alone. He even sent three security guards into the room. I told them that I had at one time been a security guard for a number of years and that I was obviously no threat to anyone. They seemed very sheepish about the whole thing. Around this time the epileptologist also called my bluff about calling a lawyer. Unfortunately I could not remember the number of one.
Only after agreeing to be heavily sedated was I allowed to leave and unhooked from all my wires when my sister and brother-in-law showed up.
Now I am pretty upset with my sister; she knows my charactor well enough to know that I never would have agreed to be locked into the bed.
Having seizures is NOT a crime it is a disease like having a heart attack or a stroke.
I am very unhappy about my family and my treatment in general. It just seems to me to be barbaric for this "enlightened" century.
 
It is a shame more medical personal aren't subjected to the humiliation they put their patents through daily. Perhaps they would learn a little more compassion as many simply lack it.

As someone who spent 4 years starting at 12 years old and recently some time in medical care it only makes me feel as you do, that "modern" medicine is still very barbaric and dehumanizing.
 
I think you need to find another doctor. Second opinions and new specialists can make a world of difference.

Sometimes there is no concern for dignity in health care. I have had some experience with bad un-caring doctor's and nurses. You did what I would have done.

I think you need to find another specialist ASAP and get back on some meds to control your seizures.
 
This is neurologist number 4 in the 8 1/2 years since I had a closed head injury do to a car accident and started having seizures. I am just getting real real tired of this whole thing.
 
sad u went thru that, catavenger.
i can understand restraint for wanderers not in thier right minds, the incoherent, the intubated/unconscious, the ones so drunk or drug addicted that they're reached the point of self-harm/voilence, violent poeple in general. those threatenening suicide or harm to another, etc.

sounds like a CYA on thier end. let someone put them in 4-point leather restraints for a few days during training as medical personnal. once @ the beginning of thier schooling, then w/ a 'lil refresher course on the 'pleasantries' of restraints just as they near graduation. & not the foam ones used during procedures/intubation, etc.- 4-point leathers. maybe then they would take it easy on people already harmlessly emotionally compromised from being in a medical setting & not in thier usual cozy environment & deprived of thier thier dignity. not a bedpan & a straw to drink from when thirsty or bribing w/ fluids & meds.:hammer::hammer:

there're great docs, great nurses, techs, etc. some treat you like gold. no, not gold, platimum w/ diamonds. then there's the egotistical ones.
it's so sad they misconstrued u, tho.
 
There are doctors and medical facilities, who presume you have no choices and treat you personaly and medicaly from that perspective. Then there are those that treat you medicaly and personaly with repsect.
Unfortunately, shopping for medical care isn't easy.


All this will get much better under Obamacare. :whistling:

Sorry, coudn't help it.
 
Went through all of that and then some in 1991 after a motorcycle wreck broke my face and eye sockets. I escaped from their restraints twice and broke my own wrist to get loose the second time. They sent 7 guys to bring me back from the parking lot after I had busted up 3 the first time. They turned me loose the next day after I assured them they were breaking the law by holding me against my will. When I got home my crazy family had me committed for a 3 day psych eval at a local hospital. When I entered there I assured them I would behave as long as they did not try to restrain me. It ended up being 87 hours till the judge told them I was free to leave. The use of restraints is a much abused part of healthcare that most folks are not aware of. The idea that someone who has not committed a crime should be held against their will is just wrong IMO. That is why you are supposed to be granted a meeting with a patient rights advocate when you ask for it. Most states have laws about such things but patients are seldom told of their rights. Check with your local health dept. for the rules where you live.
 
I'm sorry for you Catavenger, that whole thing sounds quite bad.
Ditto, I better just leave it at that since I dont beleive in docters or hospitals due to past close family experiences, all to similiar to what you posted.

You have my thoughts and prayers Catavenger. :flowers:
 
A lot of what you went through was both unnecessary and cruel. However, for someone subject to seizures whose meds
were stopped for testing purposes, full-body restraint is SOP in order to prevent the patient from injuring him/herself when
seizing. To do otherwise would be medically incompetent.

I'm sorry for all the problems you had, but the restraints were about the only thing done that seems to make sense,
although there is no reason I know of for them to have been locked.

 
Catavenger,

My sympathies. Sorry you had to experiance this event. And most of all I pray that you will over come these injuries in the future. We so take driving for granted and dont often realize how we are taking a chance every time we get behind the wheel of a vehical. Stay tough.

Best regards, Kirk
 
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