I've been dating him for two years! He likes being with me. When we're together it's wonderful. He loves me, brings me small gifts and gets mad if I talk more to other guys. Yet he never calls me. I call him all the time. For every five times I call him, he calls me once. I call him to wish him good night but he rarely takes my call. I get mad. I threaten to leave him. I ask him to call me. Nothing ever works! Why do guys act so crazily? We're both 20, students with part-time jobs. He gets free early while I work long hours..yet HE'S the one with no time! I called him on Valentine's Day and we went for a movie. Sheesh!!!
sarahshasu, Doc's advice was spot on, don't be so willing and available! Good grief girl, you're only 20 and must have heaps of ambitions, hopes and dreams on your 'to do' list. At 20 there weren't enuff hours in my day, in fact there still aren't enuff, even now that I am 34.
I'm not suggesting that you give up on him, yet, but perhaps he feels that he doesn't need to call you, because you call him so often. And, what's so wrong about going to a movie on Valentine's day? You say that you 'threaten to leave him' and 'ask him to call you,' seemingly constantly; honey that is soooo naff. It comes across as exceedingly needy and trust me, guy's don't like that, it makes them uncomfortable.
But, if'n we're off base here, and he is just a jerk, then go find someone who will appreciate you, but dont sit around, wasting your life over something so transient, when there is so much to look forward to, and invest in; namely, your future.
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