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Ray

Ray

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I need some prayers guys. They never hurt.

I am going to lose my Mom tomorrow.

I just dread that coming.

I cant seem to thing rationally right now.

She was never sick, never ill, EVER.

Never been to a hospital since I was born, day b4 yesterday had a massive stroke and currently is at Methodist Hosp in ICU.

Tomorrow I tell her goodbye. I just never in my life experienced the feelings I am now.

I am the oldest, I have to do the arrangements and all. Its my place. I have to keep up the strong shoulders for everyone else. I simply never anticipated that the weight.......would be so massive. If your folks are still around, be sure to tell them you love them. I spoke with Momma wednesday on the phone. My last words to her, was to tell her I loved her.....
she already knew that....
 
I'm on it Ray.....im so so sorry Love and Prayers to you and your loved ones...Mom is at the top of my list.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Ray. Prayers are with you.
 
Sorry to hear this. I hope you will be able to come to grips with this. I am sure you will do fine with the arrangements. Prayers.
 
I've been down this road too, Ray. Let yourself grieve, embrace your family and cherish the wonderful memories you have of her. You have my sympathies.
 
Ray said:
I need some prayers guys. They never hurt.

I am going to lose my Mom tomorrow.

I just dread that coming.

I cant seem to thing rationally right now.

She was never sick, never ill, EVER.

Never been to a hospital since I was born, day b4 yesterday had a massive stroke and currently is at Methodist Hosp in ICU.

Tomorrow I tell her goodbye. I just never in my life experienced the feelings I am now.

I am the oldest, I have to do the arrangements and all. Its my place. I have to keep up the strong shoulders for everyone else. I simply never anticipated that the weight.......would be so massive. If your folks are still around, be sure to tell them you love them. I spoke with Momma wednesday on the phone. My last words to her, was to tell her I loved her.....
she already knew that....
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Ray.......

Same thing happened with my mom just 13 months ago. The kids & I talked with her on the phone the night before & told her about their sports activities & other things that were going on.........She mentioned she was going to be playing cards with old family friends the next evening.......The next morning she didn't come to breakfast.........a massive stroke.......She passed on that afternoon..........

I can feel for you Buddy........ My mom was here for every day of my life........It was just unimaginable the she was gone..........

Time will help, but it is still tough.

Yours will be missed greatly.

Just know you will be in our prayers.

Take care

Tom
 
Thoughts and prayers coming your way Ray. So sorry. Hang in there buddy.
 
Ray, I'm so sorry. Prayers from here too. Whatever you feel at a given moment is the right thing to feel. Being strong for everybody is a huge load. Done that a couple of times, myself. Take time away from all the hubbub for yourself to grieve on your own terms.
We'll be here for ya!
 
My mom passed 2 years ago today. I was so glad my brother and I went to see her the weekend before she passed. Time will help but she will always be missed. Prayers for you and your siblings.
 
Ray, I hope you feel the strength and hug I am sending through this square box. Sending prayers to you and your family. May the Lord hold her in his arms and bring her gently home.
 
Ray, you have our sympathies and you are in our prayers. I've been down that particular road and it's not easy. We're all thinking of you and yours.
 
Trakternut said:
Ray, I'm so sorry. Prayers from here too. Whatever you feel at a given moment is the right thing to feel. Being strong for everybody is a huge load. Done that a couple of times, myself. Take time away from all the hubbub for yourself to grieve on your own terms.
We'll be here for ya!
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Ray, the quote above is the best advice I can imagine. There's simply no easy way to endure a loss like this; you simply have to endure. I hope and pray the prayers sent from those on this board will help ease your pain.

Cary Nelson
 
Sorry to hear bout this Ray, sometimes its hard to understand why life treats us this way.....You and your family are in our prayers.....Hope to see you soon.........
 
Hey there duflochy....I am so glad we are both here...

Ray is just an awesome person.....He has so many people in his corner...See ya soon..
 
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