How to not fall in love?

[patrickparker]

So I guess I have a trend of falling in love with people who have already hurt me/made me uncomfortable or would do that eventually, or they’re just idiots. Every time I fall in love it’s always people who would do that, and idk but I’m afraid that’s what probably happening again, just a few days ago I was feeling really uncomfortable around this guy and he’s an idiot now idk why but I’m getting this feeling and it’s really bad for me. I just want to focus on myself for now on until I graduate college and not be vulnerable to others. I’ve been venting about my ex and friends and I don’t want to go through all that again.

 

[echo]

Get a puppy.

 

[FrancSevin]

Or a cat.
It will treat you the same way as a girlfriend for far less money.

 

[mla2ofus]

I dunno, franc, whether he/she wants a boyfriend or girlfriend going by the OPs name and desire for a boyfriend.

 

[FrancSevin]

I dunno, franc, whether he/she wants a boyfriend or girlfriend going by the OPs name and desire for a boyfriend.

Patrick is usually a boy's name. Or at least it used to be.

Anymore who knows.

Either way, He/she would do better with a cat.

 

[300 H and H]

just a few days ago I was feeling really uncomfortable around this guy and he’s an idiot now idk why but I’m getting this feeling and it’s really bad for me.

Looks like your the idiot, not him.
Self control. Learn it, and use it. Gays apparently don't have any. Get some.

 

[power1]

Maybe you are just looking for that type of person so you will not have to be stuck in a long term relationship/

 

[ahvccenter]

I you don't want to fall in love then avoid ...