Is this true though, because it seems in my experience that women are more open to talking about their sex lives with each other compared to men, unless that's not true?
How open are you about your sex life?
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Is this true though, because it seems in my experience that women are more open to talking about their sex lives with each other compared to men, unless that's not true?
Answers Dan
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In my experience when you work with or run into a party of men making claims about sex its that they are scheming to get you to talk while they lie lie lie. People lie. Don't forget that, and you either join in and are one of the clan or are out and an alien. So when you encounter someone telling you tall tales either match them or walk away. Don't hang around to be punished for being reasonable. Not everybody is on the level. Not everybody is good.
FrancSevin
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I remember, when I was a firefighter, at parties and gatherings the men would be on one side of the room and the women on the other. Usually, my wife was interacting with the men and I standing in the kitchen admiring my wife having a good time. The guys wouldtalk about their exploits, the number of different women, their prowess, size and how long they lasted.
The women often ask me how I felt about my wife with the guys. I responded ""she's having a good time and I guarantee, she will go home with me."
The gals often opened up, talking about their disappointment in the sack and how they wish their men would get "better at the task" They had no shame in my presence and what I learned was some amazing stuff I took home with me. Not techniques so musch as knowing what a woman is looking for and seldom gets from a man.
The number one turnoff for most women is a man who brags about himself. Especially in the bedroom. In general, most men are self admiring fools who worry more about size and quantity for their pleasure than the wants and needs of the partner. It leads to boredom for the woman and dissatisfaction often entices them to look for excitement else where.
The women often ask me how I felt about my wife with the guys. I responded ""she's having a good time and I guarantee, she will go home with me."
The gals often opened up, talking about their disappointment in the sack and how they wish their men would get "better at the task" They had no shame in my presence and what I learned was some amazing stuff I took home with me. Not techniques so musch as knowing what a woman is looking for and seldom gets from a man.
The number one turnoff for most women is a man who brags about himself. Especially in the bedroom. In general, most men are self admiring fools who worry more about size and quantity for their pleasure than the wants and needs of the partner. It leads to boredom for the woman and dissatisfaction often entices them to look for excitement else where.
Oldtimer661
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I'm going on 73. The wife is 69 going on 50. Seriously, she is hawght.
My wife suffered ovarian cancer in '96. The surgeon took both ovaries and a full hysterectomy. He butchered her vagina. We haven't had sex since. We used to have it four or five times a week, morning and night, in every room in the house. It was like living with a porn star. I miss that.
So now I know what the "For better or worse" clause in the marriage agreement was about. We still fool around but it's like practicing rhythm 24/7.
had the classic out for a spin!!!!!!
FrancSevin
Proudly Deplorable
And by not sharing useful information, everyone is on their own guessing at what their partner might want or enjoy. The result?
Boring!
Oldtimer661
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Most other men I have been around I believe is full of it 90% of the time. Their stories are very hard to believe. When you are quiet and don't say much you get placed in a whole new category. I have found many women I know who have chats will tell things you can't imagine on others both male and female that is far more believable. LOL.
ErinKeegan
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We are very open with my boyfriend in front of our friends, we can calmly discuss many problems. If our friends share with us, we can give advice as well. I think this is very useful. For example, in a circle of friends, we share stories about sex toys, which helps us diversify our sex life. On the advice of friends, we recently ordered a vibrating-butt-plug this is a very cool thing, and I advise you too!
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Oldtimer661
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The more the communication the better for sure. No way any thing can go wrong with honesty and trust with full communication by all involved. Advanced discussions of problems,pleasures,attarctions with all up front can be enjoying and rewarding with absoultly no boredom. The most important issues is trust of all with no secrets.