andylim1928
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*** I cant ask anybody I know this question, so I REALLY APPRECIATE all your insight****
This may sound like a movie script, but its NOT, this is why im so scared to ask anybody I know. Really appreciate your time.
Here is the background:
I have a really good friend of roughly 1.5 to 2 years. We are both male, and we get along very well. He is the only one that I can travel with without getting annoyed (to me that is a extremely compatible friend, as most people I can not stand after a day of hanging out with them.) I truly beleive he is 100% straight. He is one of those people that gets ALOT of girls, as in a different girlfriend every few months, and he actively has sex with them. We basically are like almost brothers, we can talk to each other about anything, and is really comfortable to open up to each other about any topic in life.
The part that questions me is this. We are very active people, we do sports everyday, including extreme sports such as parkour and downhill mountain biking etc. We also like to have playful fights like wrestling and what not. But we both would wrestle with our clothes on, and we both would wrestle completely naked as well. He and I would both grab each other balls (not playful, but like hard enough grab to hurt) with and without underwear on. Also we would play drinking games when we are traveling, and in our hotel room, we would both get naked on the bed. He would let me cuddle naked with him, or sit on top of him while letting me rub myself against him, when we both get really drunk. The whole time I would have a hard on and he would tap it or make fun of it, while he never gets hard when I rub against him. There was one time I would be kissing his neck as well as rubbing on him naked. The next day we wouldnt really talk about it, just talk about us drinking, not mentioning the naked thing, but he also says that he remembers everything.
Question:
Is it normal that straight guys do this with each other all the time? I am personally bi, but he doesnt know that. We mostly talk about girls and stuff. On the outside he honeslty acts 100% straight to me, only checks out girls, and talks about girls and sex with them. I obviously find him extremely attractive, but I just want to know your guys opinion if he is straight or not? and if other straight guys do this to each other and find it normal? Also do you think he knows im bi, or do straight guys just think this is what they do there best buddies?
Thanks, just curious about this situation, never had it before. I have only been with women even tho, I classify myself as Bi, so this is really new to me. Thanks!
This may sound like a movie script, but its NOT, this is why im so scared to ask anybody I know. Really appreciate your time.
Here is the background:
I have a really good friend of roughly 1.5 to 2 years. We are both male, and we get along very well. He is the only one that I can travel with without getting annoyed (to me that is a extremely compatible friend, as most people I can not stand after a day of hanging out with them.) I truly beleive he is 100% straight. He is one of those people that gets ALOT of girls, as in a different girlfriend every few months, and he actively has sex with them. We basically are like almost brothers, we can talk to each other about anything, and is really comfortable to open up to each other about any topic in life.
The part that questions me is this. We are very active people, we do sports everyday, including extreme sports such as parkour and downhill mountain biking etc. We also like to have playful fights like wrestling and what not. But we both would wrestle with our clothes on, and we both would wrestle completely naked as well. He and I would both grab each other balls (not playful, but like hard enough grab to hurt) with and without underwear on. Also we would play drinking games when we are traveling, and in our hotel room, we would both get naked on the bed. He would let me cuddle naked with him, or sit on top of him while letting me rub myself against him, when we both get really drunk. The whole time I would have a hard on and he would tap it or make fun of it, while he never gets hard when I rub against him. There was one time I would be kissing his neck as well as rubbing on him naked. The next day we wouldnt really talk about it, just talk about us drinking, not mentioning the naked thing, but he also says that he remembers everything.
Question:
Is it normal that straight guys do this with each other all the time? I am personally bi, but he doesnt know that. We mostly talk about girls and stuff. On the outside he honeslty acts 100% straight to me, only checks out girls, and talks about girls and sex with them. I obviously find him extremely attractive, but I just want to know your guys opinion if he is straight or not? and if other straight guys do this to each other and find it normal? Also do you think he knows im bi, or do straight guys just think this is what they do there best buddies?
Thanks, just curious about this situation, never had it before. I have only been with women even tho, I classify myself as Bi, so this is really new to me. Thanks!
