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My little guy, Daddy's fishing, hunting and Navy buddy.... a very special man finally passed away around noon.
Stubborn fella!
His struggle is over and he's with all those who loved him now who went before him.
And yes Foggy.. he got a TON of kisses and hugs last night. :wink:
 
See, I knew he was waiting for you before he dragged anchor... Just like a sailor!

God speed to his next port of call and be blessed with following seas!
 
I was kind of wondering where you were the last few days. Thanks for the update.
 
Steve, I've been picking up extra time at work.
Just ended a 5 day in a row last night.
To most people working a straight 5 day week is the norm. For me it's not.

Anyhow, I was pleased that I was fortunate to be with him and his sister and 3 nieces on the west wing last night, and thankfully, the night was pretty quiet, so I was free to spend a lot of time with them, checking in between my other duties.

I got the call this noon as I was sitting here at home.
Called a couple of his family members, and my brother and sister... relief all around.
 
Actually, three more. Lollie, thanks for all you do to make life better for those nearing the end. It isn't easy and I have it on good authority that you do it very well indeed.

Also, "Fair winds and following seas" to the sailor on the journey to his new home port.

 
Uh huh.
He'll get a last hug and kiss tomorrow night.
Thanks you guys, seriously.
I won't be able to attend his funeral, as I'll be at work, but I'll be there tomorrow evening for a while at the funeral home.

He always called me Bugs because Dad did.
I called him Pickles for I don't know how long, because he loved them. :D

RIP Oscar.
 
I’m sorry for not replying to this sooner Lollie. The strength and never-ending compassion you show for those who are departing this world and embarking on greatest journey is a credit to you and your profession. Life is only temporary but love goes on forever.
 
Thanks Ronnie :)
He had a grand party this evening.
There were a lot of people there that I hadn't seen in a very long time.
One thing I find very nice is that his day was on Veteran's Day, and he was oh so proud of his time spent in Korea and never let anyone forget it either.

Tomorrow they'll lay him to rest and he'll be strutting as proud as a peacock up there during the military rites.

He looked very handsome and at peace.
Wonder if anyone will wipe the pink lipstick off his forehead?

Here's to a special man who loved reading western novels, loved country music and watching Walker Texas Ranger. Loved his beer and chew back in the day, fishing on the little Auglaize and St. Mary's rivers, attending every damned holiday parade in full dress and marching on behalf of the VFW... he loved my Mom's fried chicken, he owned an antique/junk shop here in town for years and loved talking to the people who'd come in to browse more than he cared to actually sell anything.

I think the proudest two moments of his life were when his daughter went to college and gave birth to his grandson.

I AM happy that I got to care for him, and comfort him until the end.
There was a night before he was put on a stronger pain med.
I came walking down the hall toward his room and he smiled right through that god damned pain and pretended like it wasn't as bad as I knew it was.

Yup.. gonna miss him.. but he's in the better place now.
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