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Can you say no to sex?

If your partner is in the mood for love, can you turn him or her down?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 47.8%

  • No

    Votes: 4 17.4%

  • Sometimes

    Votes: 3 13.0%

  • Ocasionally

    Votes: 4 17.4%

  • No comment

    Votes: 1 4.3%
  • Total voters
    23
Gunsrus

Gunsrus

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We're all free spirits. We can choose to do something, or not to, depending on what we want at the time. I'd like to know how many people out there in a relationship, whether it be living together or otherwise, can refuse to make love to their partner if he or she is sending out signals, indicating interest in the act, or if one of them puts their arms around you, facing you or not.
 
Every woman I've ever known can. And so can I. If the time, mood or partner is not right I can say no, or delay.
 
At one time in my life the answer would have been "NO", definitely "NO". I might have had to use both hands to move my erection to one side to see who was asking but to be honest, it wouldn't have mattered. :yum:

Honestly, I have turned down sex in my life, on more than one occasion. These days the opportunity to turn it down would be a novelty. I'd scratch my head and say, "What!!!" as I gave her "seeing eye" dog a treat. :yum:
 
We have 4 younger kids in the house. Still we somehow managed 2-3 times a day most days. Then I had my accident. We're down to bare minimum now but not because either of us don't want to. More like I'm in so much pain by the time she gets home from work that I can barely move most days.

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When I always said no, I was always told that I was being selfish and need to learn to just lay there and take it anyway. Sometimes I would just give in to get him to just shut up and leave me alone so I can sleep.

But haha you know looking back, I thought of the most damnest things during those "moments". Like "hmm.. I wonder if those shoes I wanted came in... That episode I watched was really good! I hope that stain came out of my shirt... shit I hope I don't have to wash the sheets again already. Is he almost done? I really want a resses peanut butter cup right now... oh what babe? Yes it was great! You wore me out so much that now I just want to pass out and fall right to sleep...
 
Somehow Angelface, I don't think you are alone in doing that. In Britain the expression is, "Just lay back and think of England". I have no idea where it comes from.
 
Can I say no to Sex?

Well now,... LOL that depends an awful lot on who is doing the asking!!! :whistling:

Just as it should. :smile:

Regards, Kirk
 
EastTexFrank said:
So you're dating a jerk off.
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Sooooooo!!!
To go way off topic here, luvs hasn't been on this forum or any of the cooking forums she tends to visit since the end of January.

I do hope she's alright. :neutral:

Correction- I do see now that she was on NCT on 2/19.

.. and still I worry about her.
 
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pirate_girl said:
Sooooooo!!!
To go way off topic here, luvs hasn't been on this forum or any of the cooking forums she tends to visit since the end of January.

I do hope she's alright. :neutral:

Correction- I do see now that she was on NCT on 2/19.

.. and still I worry about her.
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She's back. Posted on NCT yesterday afternoon.
 
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